Dating 10 years older
I tell her no way, you cant leave me to go on without out..I don't want to live in this world without her in nit and so we jokingly have a suicide pact.By Amy Rose Spiegel One of the most frequent Just Wondering questions we get here at Rookie is some variation on the following: “I’m a teenager and I’m thinking about dating/am intensely attracted to a person who’s significantly older than me. ” Well, as someone who not only has always been interested in older dudes, but has also dated quite a few of them, I have some things to say about your situation, question-askers.
But she tells me she expects to go first because she has hereditary medical issues and most women in her family die relatively young.I always thought that women who dated older men had to have "daddy issues." Not necessarily. This is the first time in my life that I have ever dated anyone considerably older than me. In fact, for a long time when I began dating my partner, I kept asking myself what I was doing with a man so much older than I am. Why am I even considering going to dinner with an old guy? In actuality, this man is spiritually light-years ahead of most of the men (and probably women, too) that I've met before. This is often because he's been there, or somewhere similar, himself; he knows what he needed or would have needed at that time in his life. He has worked through (or at least has working through) most of his issues. For instance, he's not worried when I talk to another guy, nor does he care how many pairs of shoes I have. He He's not going to run at the first chance he gets. Instead, he sits right down and talks it through with me. He supports me wherever I am in my life, and talks me through whatever challenge I am enduring, making sure I have what I need.